Are IMing, Twittering, Facebooking, and So On Really Anti-Social?

by Lee Sigelman on March 19, 2009 · 3 comments

in General Politics,Other social science

Yesterday my colleague Henry approvingly posted an overview of David Gibson’s argument that the new social networking media constitute “anti-social capital, ” by which he means ties “whose main consequence is that you spend a lot of time online communicating with people who, like you, have a lot of time to spend socializing online. It’s not hard to foresee why someone without such connections would fair better at school, in the workplace, and in their family relations than someone with them, other things being equal.”

Among the comments that Henry’s post drew was a rather, er, severe one by Sverre:

When are people going to stop looking at Facebook and other social media as a new way to waste time and rather look at it as a new way of communication? Why is time wasted on idle Facebook communication any more damaging to my academic work than time wasted on idle chatter over a cup of cofee at the campus coffee shop?
Social internet media have made social interaction more available even as I sit by my office computer. Distracting chatter and meaningful, academically relevant communication equally much.
Whether or not one likes the term social capital, it appears to me to be a misconception with grumpy old professors that asocial students do better than social active ones. Of the truly brilliant students I know, most of them are also among the socially most active. Most of them area also on Facebook. Just as social interaction can be something other than getting drunk and smoking pot, so can active participation through internet channels be more than a mere waste of time.
I would assume a blogger would be the first to acknowledge this…

I think Sverre is right. Here’s why.

In the hot-off-the-presses issue of Current Directions in Psychological Science, Patti M. Valkenburg and Jochen Peter present an overview of pertinent research (“Social Consequences of the Internet for Adolescents,” v. 18 (February): 1-5), here. They note that when e-mail and chat rooms became popular during the 1990s, several commentators “believed that these technologies would reduce adolescents’ social connectedness and well-being” because they “assumed that (a) the Internet motivates adolescents to form superfical online relationships with strangers that are less beneficial than their real-world relationships and (b) time spent with online strangers occurs at the expense of time spent with existing relationships.” During the 1990s, that interpretation was generally supported by researchers, who found that Internet use wsa negatively related to social connectedness and well-being.

However, much has changed since the 1990s. In the early days, it was difficult “to maintain one’s existing social network on the Internet because the greater part of this network was not yet online …At the time, online contacts were separated from offline contacts. But at present, the vast majority of adolescents in Western countries have access to the Internet. At such high access rates, a negative effect of the Internet on social connectedness is less likely because adolescents have more opportunities to maintian their social network through this medium.”

Moreover, the communication technologies that predominated during the 1990s were typically used for communication between strangers; but IMing, Facebook, and other recent innovations “have been developed that encourage adolescents to communicate with existing friends.” The implication? “Because adolescents now predominantly use the Internet to maintain their existing friendships, the condition for negative effects of the Internet on social connectedness and well-being no longer exists.” Thus, recent research now indicates that “adolescents’ online communication stimulates, rather than reduces, social connectedness and/or well-being.”

Valkenberg and Peter provide a convincing account of how this all occurs at the individual level. The key elements in their explanation are that online communication stimulates self-disclosure, that self-disclosure enhances the quality of relationships, and that high-quality relationships promote well-being.

One especially intriguing finding is that “adolescent boys seem to benefit more from online communication with existing friends than girls do,” because such communication enhances boys’ otherwise-stunted tendency to self-disclose. Apparently it’s easier for boys to talk about “feelings” when they’re not looking one another in the eye.

{ 3 comments }

Sverre March 20, 2009 at 4:28 am

That must have come across as less constructive than it was intended. But nice to know you agree :)

The research you refer to describes exactly the development those of us who were teenagers in the nineties have experienced. The nineties was the age of IRC and similar chat services, that were mostly about randomly connecting with new people through text messages and was very ill-suited to keeping in touch with real life friends.

The messenger services that became popular closer to the millennium were a lot more personal and mainly served to keep in touch with friends from real life. Facebook and the similar services of the last few years have the additional merit of being extremely information rich. By constantly providing you with information about the doings of friends you might otherwise not have contacted, Facebook often gives you an opening to rekindle an old friendship over something you suddenly find you have in common.

Now regarding Prof. Farell’s idea of anti-social capital, I think it is mistaken. It appears to be based on the premise that online communication is not social interaction and thus not contribution to personal development. If we however take the view that this is another form of person-to-person communication, and may very well be used to express and discuss serious ideas (as we are doing now, by the way), it is hard to accept the “not hard to foresee” conclusion from the Gibson post.

online dating March 20, 2009 at 7:29 am

I wouldn’t call them anti-social but maybe social hindering.They get us so dependent on them that we forget how to carry on normal and healthy relationships with people in person.

Sverre March 20, 2009 at 11:21 am

They do transform our social relationships, surely. They don’t make us communicate less, but definitely different. That changes our entire relationships. I’m not so convinced, though, that this particular change is for the worse rather than the better.

I’m sure they said the same things about the telephone and newspapers when they first appeared.

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